Found between late April (Spring) and early June (what some would consider Summer) you will find a season which is filled with hope, ambition, revelry, and sometimes the highest of pageantry. The best part of this season is that the benefits that go with it are as personal and transformational as you are as willing for them to become. Surprisingly though, this unique season is often forgotten. That is, until this blog has brought it back to your attention…
The season, which we have seemingly left off of the calendar, but yet is celebrated by Thousands and Thousands every year is no other than the famed space of time known as: Graduation Season.
Much like more famous family events such as the holidays of Christmas, Chanukkah, or Kwanza, my family makes a lot ta-do about a graduations. We are like the Griswold’s of Graduations, complete with mishaps, small family feuds, time schedules (my father was a Navy Man/Aerospace Engineer), and even some hijinks.
Above and beyond this family fact is an unspoken expectation that all of our immediate family members are to do whatever they can to attend the graduation of another family member…no matter how far they have to travel, or how much cost they may incur to get themselves there. Our mission is to get ourselves to the show.
This family tradition has grown to become a form of showing respect to the educational accomplishments of other family members. A coming of age celebration, if you will. Not showing up for a graduation event could lead to a lot of family problems because it would be interpreted as a thumbing your nose at not just the graduate, but the entire imposed law of family unity. So, needless too say, I have almost always enjoyed the events of a graduation.
Though it has been years since I have participated in said Graduation Seasons’ events, I recently had the unique opportunity to partake while attending a ceremony for my sister from Johns Hopkins’ University in Baltimore, Md. She was graduating with a Masters’ in Environmental Policy.
The guest speaker was none other than Dr. Thomas E. Lovejoy III, Ph.D. so sizing everything up, and totally underestimating the power of the season, I thought that I was in for some serious boredom, a suntan and buckets worth of sweating. I was pleasantly surprised however as I listened to Dr. Lovejoy’s address and found myself so very wrong in estimating the limitations of the event, and the season which was about to affect my life.
See, being a pioneer in the field of Environmental Science, Dr. Lovejoy quickly realized that his research pointed back to one very large problem: Humans were in large part negatively shaping the world, and having a major impact on his research. This realization brought him face-to-face with a very real, very human problem of his own. Would he keep his mouth shut, and go about life in an academic bubble?, -or- would he do the ver unpopular thing in the early 80′s and share his research? Luckily for us Dr. Lovejoy decided on the later, and stepped out of Enviro Sci obscurity.
While sharing his wealth of knowledge, Dr. Lovejoy recounted a few tidbits that he found most useful in his life. Personally, I found many of his remarks absolutely wonderful, and highly adaptable to any pioneering work (especially when talking about the pioneering world of Social Media in Human Resources).
Three of the most seering statements that he made were these:
1.) “During the course of my education, research, and later navigation through academia, when I ran into an event that had never been documented before or required that I “think outside the box”…I simply made it up.”
I have to admit, when this statement was made, the crowd definitely take notice. I believe I even heard someone say “YES!!!!, I knew it!”. For me, this statement was a gold mine. It is very encouraging to hear someone in an industry leadership role say that at one point in their career that they also had to roll up their sleeves and apply some of self ingenuity…even more so amazing was the fact that this statement was coming from someone with such a high mental capacity, and who is so revered in his field and society-at-large.
In comparison, far to many times (especially in HR) societal (and sometimes organizational) beliefs insist that we ”live and die by the rules”. Unfortunately, it is because of our adherence to the rules 100% of the time that we miss the opportunity to aid our organizations make the critical change and find a new competitive advantage by simply asking the question “why”. Sometimes it is beneficial to look at processes differently, and innovatively. It is also empowering to know that we all have the brain power and ability to formulate breakthroughs in our industry by just applying ourselves in a genuine way.
2.) “Truly listening is the most underappreciated leadership skill.”
This statement holds a lot of information, but I believe that it stands pretty much for itself. He went on to say that listening to younger generations especially was at the core of his convictions…something along the lines of “constant learning through teaching the next generation”. Very heavy stuff, but still uplifting. It also had an almost ominous warning to not get to wrapped up in our ourselves as much, so as not to lose sight of what we are capable of accomplishing together as team versus always trying to place ourselves in the limelight. Personally, I think that is o.k. to listen to what others are saying to learn how to adapt.
3.) “Be willing to stand up for what we know is the truth, even when it isn’t popular.”
This statement grabbed me the most, and honestly is something that I think that most pioneers struggle with (no matter what field). I think that there is so much struggle around this ideal because so many pioneers feel that “success” can be defined by how society views them . Personal perspective on what the “truth” is, especially in the face of social norms is very daunting to overcome. This statement reminds me to stand strong in that in the face of the groupthink, or when ethical and moral values tell me otherwise. Unfortunately, when caught up in the race to make a quick dollar many organizations compromise or even their sets their goals/achievements on the “industry” ideal instead of their own productive ability.
As you can see, the Graduation Season is more than a mere time for celebrating endings, achievements, or completions. As I have learned, it is also about personal reflection, evaluation and building for the future. Either view that you may personally want to enjoy it, this month and a half should never be forgotten again. I highly urge you to fully take part in the Graduation Season, when, and if you are so lucky to get a chance. Who knows, maybe you will even turn out to be your very own Lovejoy.